DISCLAIMER: IT SEEMS WHENEVER I SPEAK ABOUT REJECTION MY WIFE BEGINS TO RECEIVE ANGRY MESSAGES FROM A COUPLE OF DIFFERENT PARTY’S. MY MESSAGE TO YOU IS WE’RE OVER THE FACT YOU REJECTED US FOR WHATEVER YOUR REASONS ARE. PLEASE MOVE ON AS WELL! THIS POST WAS WRITTEN FOR THE SOUL PURPOSE TO TEACH OTHERS THAT THEY CAN HANDLE THE ASPECTS OF REJECTION AND MOVE FORWARD THROUGH THE HELP OF JEHOVAH.
God Is Asking You To Be-Come A Part Of Him,
Change is far from easy. It is actually a headache at times, it has been a while since I have thought of all the changes the Lord has put me through. Romans 12:2 talks about renewing of the Mind I mention this because the change process begins with the mind and then through actions.
The very thoughts of the mind drives the body into action. -R3ign
I can remember when I was so afraid of the notion of rejection that I let the fear, drive me into rejecting others first so I could feel like I was in control of others not rejecting me. My wife and I have started a ministry where we seek out the very people who society has thrown to the curb. Recently we were investing some time into this woman named Nina, She cannot read so we read the bible to her, recently my wife and I were approached by the Lord to make some structural changes to how we conduct ourselves ministry wise and this will affect our allotted time we can spend each week with individuals. Nina begin to get the nagging thought that we were going to give up on her and throw her to the curb like everyone else has done in her life, so she begin to distant herself and my wife and I, noticed the signs of the fear of rejection within Nina, so we approached her kindly and explained we’ve been there and we knew how she felt and how the fear was driving out action throughout her.
I mention this about Nina, because my wife and I were once like that, we have been rejected by others so much that it was better to reject first to be able to handle the pain within. The Lord had truly taught my wife and I, a harsh lesson on rejection and we felt like we weren’t going to survive the hurt. We survived the hurt and change for the better begin to merge within us and now we’re not afraid of rejection but instead we now have the attitude “It’s That Persons Lost” don’t get me wrong my wife and I forgive anyone that choose to reject us for what ever reason it may be, but on the other hand my wife and I now don’t allow anyone willing to reject us to have another chance in our lives unless they’re truly sorry for pushing us away in the first place. My wife and I just move on and live life-like anyone willing to reject us, is just somebody we use to know.
I encourage anyone that has been rejected by someone to forgive them and move forward, there are many reasons why people chose to reject and it could be a result of their own insecurities. I also encourage the folks that reject others out of the fear of becoming rejected themselves to open up and let the person know how your feeling if the person(s) truly care about you, then they will find value with sharing how you’re really feeling.
Before I close this post with prayer I would like to encourage to forgive those that have hurt you, I am not asking you to trust them; but I am asking you to release the bitter roots that are taking up precious room inside of you.
Prayer: Dear Lord i come before you asking for the healing power across the nation, there is some many people who are alone in this world because they either rejected others to point they had no left or they have been rejected by others to the point they have no one left either. Lord I come to you today and ask for a massive healing of hearts across the nation. I ask also Lord that you help the individuals across the nation to come to terms to the point they can forgive and release the bitterness within.