You Are Not the Judge
11 Brothers and sisters, don’t say anything against each other. If you criticize your brother or sister in Christ or judge them, you are criticizing and judging the law they follow. And when you are judging the law, you are not a follower of the law. You have become a judge.
As Christians we need to respect the fact that God is the Judge of our lives not others and we shouldn’t disrespect the law of the Bible in the manner of judging others, for it shows that our fruit of the spirit do not line up with the Characteristic displayed in the Bible. Don’t get me wrong if you see a brother or sister falling I suggest praying to the Lord to help you approach them with love and kindness.
But what the scripture is saying is not to place judgement upon others for your life isn’t as clean either. The verse is also stating not to go to someone else and say you have a prayer request for someone to justify the aspect you really are ill gotten criticizing the person you may have a problem with through gossip covered up by the make-up aspect it’s a prayer request and the other party should have the full picture. Scripture plainly states that if you’re going to cast judgement on someone else then you’re being a doer of being a judge and jury and not a follower of the Law in the Bible.
Readers I highly encourage you to lift the person in prayer yourself, A lot of times when I have a issue with someone I don’t discuss it with my wife unless I feel it may affect her this way I don’t allow wiggle room for the spirit of judgement to come into play. I urge you as fellow, followers to have God at the center of your life to the point you go to him before your spouse or friends. Husband and Wives if you have to let your spouse know only share the details with love and leave the drama out of it. When I speak of sharing with love I mean share in a way that lifts the person you have a issue with ask your spouse to pray with you as well to have God convict their heart for Jehovah is only one that knows truly what they are struggling with that is causing the issue at hand.